Vic's Heart

Enjoy Life

2012-02-09T00:38:00.003+08:00

Enjoy Life Why worry and drenched in painWhen you can dance in the rainLet go of the ache and runRace with the wind and have fun Why cry on a warm sunny dayWhen you can go to the beach to playUnload the burden and be freeGo ahead and throw that Frisbee Why not let your spirit fly highWhen it’s a glorious, clear blue skyStop looking for the dark cloudsThere is no reason not to feel proud

新年新希望

2012-01-13T01:38:00.010+08:00

新年新希望新的一年新希望只要开心就会旺愁眉不展运不来打开心胸运自来凡事只要看得开富贵花朵为你开今日不知明日事惟有天天做善事命里有时不必求命里无时莫强求事事靠人人会跑只有靠自己最好心虚心软自己苦心坚心硬不再哭人人都曾犯过错但不可一错再错放下过去往前看美满未来最好看人生是甜还是苦只有自己能做主

When It's Time To Move On

2012-01-04T02:46:00.003+08:00

When It's Time To Move On We all know that there are certain things in life that are not meant to be, but how can one determine what was meant to be from what was not meant to be? Most relationships usually start on a good note, you may think you are in love but you may not know enough about the person you are dating to make this decision. As time goes by you will learn many new things about your

Goodbye 2011, Hello 2012

2011-12-30T01:11:00.001+08:00

Goodbye 2011, Hello 2012 Here’s to the year that’s close to its expiration. We all had some surprises, didn’t we? Some positive, some negative, some interesting, some distressing, some meaningful, some doubtful, some …… May the good times live on in our memories and may the lessons learnt from the troubling times make us stronger and better than ever. Let’s use everything that we have gained from

Christmas Is A Time

2011-12-14T01:50:00.001+08:00

Christmas Is A Time …… Christmas is a time for love and funA time to smile as brightly as the sun A time to give our heart to everyone Christmas is a time to rejoiceA time to be merry and jump for joyA time to behave like a playful boy Christmas is a time for all loved onesA time to find out what they wantA time to show we cherish each one Christmas is a time to give generouslyA time to spread

Feeling Insecure

2011-12-01T01:23:00.002+08:00

Feeling Insecure Insecurity is the feeling of not being sure about a certain outcome. Insecurity is usually associated with the future. For example, you may be feeling insecure about a future aspect of your life or you may be afraid to lose something that you already own. Feeling insecure in a relationship is a lot like a headache. Most of us experience the pain of it at one time or another and

Fear Of Losing

2011-11-15T01:15:00.004+08:00

Fear Of Losing You are in love and it feels wonderful. This love is different and you are prepared to do anything to make it last. To prevent this ship from sinking you work hard to steer this relationship into a safe harbour. In the process you lose yourself and jeopardise your romantic relationship. Too many people sabotage their dating life and their romantic relationships because their

At A Crossroad

2011-11-08T22:49:00.001+08:00

At A Crossroad How often must we bear the challenges of life? The endless roller coaster between happiness and sorrow, the constant ups and downs of daily strife and always the question remains ...... why me? Life is not an easy road for most. It twists and turns with many forks in the road. However, most of the time, we are given a choice. Do we turn to the right or to the left? Do we take the

To Trust Again

2011-10-17T01:49:00.000+08:00

To Trust Again There are two types of people in the world — those who trust everyone until it is proven that they can't be trusted, and those who trust no one until it is proven that they can be trusted. The former are the most likely to be hurt, betrayed and dismayed. If you are a trusting person, you know how easily hurt can come. You put your heart and soul out on the table for everyone to

Happy All The Time

2011-10-05T01:30:00.001+08:00

Happy All The Time Every one of us values happiness in life. Without happiness, there is no enjoyment and life is dull. Since we value happiness, we all look for ways to achieve it in our life and we all know that life is hard and being happy 24/7 is quite impossible. For some people, happiness is easy to achieve, especially when they have lots of money, friends and everything they desire all

Being Honest

2011-09-13T03:20:00.001+08:00

Being Honest Are you honest with yourself? Most people are not honest with themselves and some even go to great expense to protect themselves from the reality around them. They do this by lying. Lying is extremely appealing because in the short term it can make a bad situation seem better than it is, or disappear altogether. But in the long term it will only make things worse. People lie to

The Nature of Love

2011-08-31T00:01:00.001+08:00

The Nature of Love For those who are sceptical about love, love doesn't come wrapped up, already made. Love works for all those who work at it. It needs a twosome for it to work out. Love is something that makes happy things happier. It is a language just for two, spoken in a world just for two, as time stands still – just for two. To share love with someone is to know the fullest meaning of what

Whose Fault?

2011-08-25T23:29:00.001+08:00

Whose Fault? So your relationship is over. Now what? Breaking up is one whale of a challenge. The pain of losing your love is one thing, but the pain of losing what might have been between you is even worse. Asking yourself, “What did I do wrong?” or battering yourself with continual “Why? Why? Why?” is a dead end. Why do some people want to change themselves to fit with some one that is clearly

Saying Goodbye

2011-08-16T23:53:00.001+08:00

Saying Goodbye When love is gone, it’s time to say goodbye. But saying goodbye doesn't mean forgetting the person you've loved before. It's the relationship, memories and hope that you should let go. Goodbye doesn't mean it's the end of the world. But instead it's a new beginning, a new challenge that is full of hope, as if you're entering another phase of your life. Love is gone when you try to

To Love or Be Loved

2011-08-04T00:44:00.001+08:00

To Love or Be Loved “Which is better? To love or be loved?“ That is a question that those in a romantic relationship will ask at some time of their love journey. Most of the time, we would prefer to believe that we have sufficient capacity to combine the two in such a manner that we may truly feel love. A relationship always consists of two persons, from which, one always gives more than the

In Love With Ourselves

2011-07-26T23:34:00.001+08:00

In Love With Ourselves What’s your relationship with yourself like? Do you listen to your inner voice? Are you honest with yourself? Do you take care of yourself? Do you believe in yourself no matter what? Are you aware of your potentials? When we were infants, we used to take care of ourselves simply by demanding what we needed. It is a natural progression to think about ourselves first and then

Promising Ourselves

2011-07-20T01:10:00.001+08:00

Promising Ourselves Each one of us has made some types of promises to ourselves. It may have been a promise to eat healthier, exercise more, read more or even to wake up earlier. Our promises to ourselves are usually made in order to create a better life by adding something good or taking something away. There are many moral reasons why we want to keep promises to other people. It may be

The Power of Empathy

2011-07-13T01:23:00.002+08:00

The Power of Empathy Imagine a world in which people interacted with each other like ants or fish. Imagine a day at work or in your family when you are only aware of the surface behaviour of the people around you but oblivious to their inner life while they remain unmoved by your own. That's a world without empathy. To me, it sounds like a horror film. Without empathy, there can be no real love,

Why People Lie

2011-07-06T01:01:00.003+08:00

Why People Lie If you look around, you will find many people who lie many times during the day. In fact, almost all people on this planet lie at some or other point of their life. Some may be “white” lies but everyone tells lies or “omits the truth” sometimes. It is believed that the circumstances prevailing at that moment compels a person to lie. In most of the cases, people lie to protect their

Outlook On Life

2011-06-27T00:33:00.000+08:00

Outlook On Life There are two important components in life, namely our outlook on life and our attitude towards life. Our outlook is how we see the world around us and how we interpret what we see. When we have a negative outlook we see mostly problems, difficulties and threats. We see the dark side in everything. We feel the stress and stress can turn into distress. When we have a positive

Breaking Up Gracefully

2011-06-20T02:08:00.002+08:00

Breaking Up Gracefully Most romantic relationships eventually come to an end – except for the one with the person with whom we spend our lives. In every breakup, there are always two sides. Everybody knows that it’s a devastating experience to be ditched by someone you really love, be it a breakup or a divorce. We all have gone through this at least one time in our life. But the fact is, it’s

Can Love Make Us Happy?

2011-06-16T23:03:00.002+08:00

Can Love Make Us Happy? To love and to be loved is the beauty of life. Many people yearn for peace, love and happiness myself included. Love brings happiness that is what we are made to think from very early stages in life. Must we make others happy for us to be happy too? These are some of the dangerous myths in life that can keep you standing on your way to happiness. Life is going to be a

Dealing With Emotional Pain

2011-06-07T23:55:00.000+08:00